My sister is pretty much just having a rough day with her ex-husband like usually, so therefore I offer to take her kids off of her hands why her and my friend are off to go see a play. Right about now, I'm just chilling on a sofa, with the lullaby playing so the kids can sleep.
I will have to admit, the first few hours was a bit rough but I was able to hold my own for quite some time now. Being to the fact that I do like kids, I absolutely have no intention on having any of my own. Now I will admit again, kids are supposed to be the key to a brighter tomorrow, if they weren't such a pain in the butt but like most children, between the ages of 2 possibly up to six, I will get like that sometimes.
Patient as I am, I've been pretty much doing this whole babysitting thing for my sister sick ever since I moved here back in 2016. My niece was first born in 2017 and then the year after that my nephew was born. In case someone else needs a babysitter, I can possibly and look after to maybe 4 kids at a time and in case I'm feeling generous, I don't have to charge a dime. Normally I just do this sort of thing to give the parents a break.
I always keep telling myself that I will have a break of my own one of these days and I have faith that it will happen. Until then, my priorities and responsibilities are at the utmost importance. Now to get on the topic of Valentine's Day. Everyone out there who is in a relationship or pretty much out there celebrating their anniversary, eating out or spending their nights at a fancy hotel while singles are so hateful towards the holiday because of their experience in past relationships or the fact that they just couldn't get a date at all.
I guess Valentine's Day works like a double-edged sword: swings one way and then it swings another. it's pretty much a good or bad thing depending on how you make of it. I haven't been in a relationship since 2016 and I got to admit, being single does have its ups and downs I'm not going to lie. But there will come a time where I'm just going to have to be with a special someone because who would want to live the rest of the year is all alone by the time they hit 40 (& I'll be 30 in June 13, 2020)
All I can say here in my latest blog is this: try to enjoy the very good in Valentine's Day if you can find it. Valentine's Day doesn't always have to be about couples spending time together. You can pretty much enjoy it with a friend or family relative. Possibly chill with a neighbor or just have your pet to keep you company or just make countless Valentine's Day memes until you die of laughter.
Are the couples out there, please try to be nice to those who are single and don't rub it in their faces like high school bullies. I hope that you all have a wonderful Valentine's Day and I'm sure for the singles out there are glad that they won't run into another Holiday like this one until next year.
This is Crimson Alucard Nightfox.
I hope to see you all next time.
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